Is it more than a summer fling?

9/13/2023

You’ve spent all summer with someone new and now… summer has come and gone. You beat the heat by going on lots of date nights and you both really connected. How can you tell that your summer fling is the real thing? Today's dating world can be challenging. Sometimes it’s difficult to know when it’s right - Let us help you! Here are a few ways to know your relationship is getting serious:

You feel comfortable with each other

You’ve gone from anxious first introductions to romantic date nights. The more time you’ve spent together, the more excited you are for that next hangout. You feel at ease when you’re together.

You've met one another's friends

Solo summer date nights turned into being their plus one for Labor Day weekend festivities. You’ve met their friends and maybe even some family members! This is a great sign that your relationship is ready for the next level.

Planning for the future

The colder months are rolling in fast, which means holiday plans! Maybe you’ve brought up going to the pumpkin patch together, Halloween party plans or even meeting families over Thanksgiving! If your partner seems mutually excited, this is an indication that you are both heading in the direction of a long-term connection.

You're becoming more exclusive

You’re seeing each other more and more. All you can think about is when you can see them next. You’re not thinking about going on any other first dates as you already have your sight set on someone special. Our matchmakers can help you navigate those tricky conversations.